How much difficulty have you encountered in life? Trouble shows us what we're made of - usually not much in most cases! I'm not implying that we don't persevere. But when pushed, we squeal, right? In difficult circumstances, we become frustrated and react. We retaliate or withdraw. We piss and moan until the trouble passes. Realize that we're all weak inside.
No matter what a person has done to you or your loved ones, demonizing their actions won't help you lead or influence them. Your tone of voice will communicate your disgust - and then you'll end up investing the bare minimum in them. And you'll get back exactly what bare minimum deserves - nothing. So don't be so quick to judge. Who knows what their circumstances are? Maybe they're just being squashed in life and they're squealing - just like you or I or anyone would.
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